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What your tie says about you
One of the businessmans most significant daily tasks is
the selection of his tie. After all, as Victorian aesthete Oscar
Wilde wrote, A well-tied tie is the first serious step in
life. While the inherent gravity of the time-honored neckware
is easily exaggerated, ones choice of color and pattern can
knowingly or not project an image, be it one of confidence,
sensitivity or passive dignity.
Although the origins of the necktie are disputed, most believe
the tradition dates back to the 16th century. One theory suggests
that devastating plagues in Europe, supposedly transmitted via the
throat, prompted men to cover their necks. Other hypotheses
based, perhaps, on the male penchant for sex and violence
range from ties-as-body-armor to ties-as-phallic-symbols. Perhaps
the most authoritative theory posits the necktie as a Croatian invention,
suggesting that the Arabic word for tie karavata, from the
French cravat was originally a perversion of the word Croat.
Not only is the origin of the tie uncertain its very purpose
has become obscure. Some say theyre meant to conceal unsightly
shirt buttons; others, that theyre meant to catch food, bib-like;
others still say they serve to create the illusion of greater height,
playing on one of mans most common insecurities.
Whatever their purpose, though, ties and their multifarious
colors and patterns have come to take on meanings of their
own. Therefore, its best to know, before you ritualistically
wrap that bit of cloth round your throat, just what signal youre
sending.
Solids
Although the solid tie is a classic, one could argue its undergone
a recent renaissance in terms of color. Bold oranges, rich greens
and loud fuchsias grace the necks of movies stars and diplomats,
conveying a more liberal message, but in the same sophisticated
terms as their red and blue cousins. Worn with a gray or charcoal
suit, such ties are considerably handsome, and radiate confidence.
One need only remember the debates at the UN, just prior to the
war in Iraq, where such high-profile personalities as atomic energy
czar Mohamed ElBaradei and celebrated weapons inspector Hans Blix
showcased a series of bold solids.
Red
Red traditionally evokes sentiments of love, anger, courage and
passion, and is most commonly worn by men striving for power and
success. The notorious power tie, made famous in the
heady days of the 90s tech boom, can usually be found around
the necks of statesmen, Wall Street bankers and corporate chairmen.
Chances are it will be solid in tone or bear subtle diagonal stripes.
While such ties may appear devoid of personality, they can
in tandem with the right suit also convey importance and
gravity.
Blue
The blue solid relays a similar message to the red, but with a little
less intensity. Darker blues, in particular, have always signified
dignity and poise (it is, after all, the color of royalty). The
perfect color for meeting potential clients or partners for the
first time, blue projects the same paternal wisdom as red, albeit
in more modest terms.
In recent years, lighter shades such as sky blue
and baby blue have also proven successful in
achieving an image of laid-back assertiveness. Chic and elegant,
light blues are a common choice among right-wing presidents and
prime ministers striving to appear more accessible. Even such uncompromising
leaders as US president George W. Bush, Israeli premier Ariel Sharon
and Italian prime minister Silvio Berlusconi are now often seen
sporting crisper, lighter shades of blue.
Yellow
The power tie of yesteryear, yellow can be a good choice when hoping
to express honesty and sincerity, according to psychologists. The
color comes highly recommended for job interviews and court appearances.
The traditional association of yellow with cowardice, meanwhile,
seems to be confined to the more conservative regions of the American
Southwest.
Patterns
Ties laden with checks, stripes or polka dots of flamboyant color
are generally preferred by advertising execs and marketers, expressing
creativity and flare. Graphic designers, engineers and architects
tend to choose similar ties, only a little more ordered and subtle,
reflecting the nature of their callings. These ties tend to have
small checks or uni-colored stripes running in a single direction.
Florals and paisleys
These ties traditionally scorned for being overly feminine
scream sensitivity, and are often worn by artists or academics.
They are probably best suited for professions dealing with children
or the elderly, where less intimidating demeanors are required.
On the other hand, animal, car or sport motifs are probably best
left for the weekend.
So no matter how deep your scorn for the daily mock-strangulation
rite, take a minute to decide the image you want to project. The
tie you select speaks louder than words.
Cherif Barakat
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